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From Victoria Dixon
Sent 12th August 2004
Subject GOOD LUCK

Dearest Fiona,

I just wanted to leave a message here for you to wish you luck with Joshua's Boxes and to let you know that I really admire your commitment and determination. I am sure that your effort's will touch many others hearts during what will be a very difficult time for them.

Lots of Love

Your friend

Vicky xXx

www.babythomas.co.uk

From Kelly and Todd Blum
Sent 23 August 2004 15:30:10
Subject Success

Fiona,

Our daughter Ella was stillborn at 39 weeks on 1/26/04 and I have to say that your website has really touched our hearts. You are doing an amazing service to families who have lost children. We wish you all the success in the world with Joshua's Boxes
'!

"Each life is indeed a gift.
No matter how short, no matter how fragile.
Each life is indeed a gift to be held in our hearts forever!"

From sharon roberts
Sent 24 August 2004 03:09:34
Subject Joshuas Boxes

I think this website is beautiful,and you had a very beautiful son, God Bless him. I have lost three babies, the first Bethany was born at 20 weeks on August 1997. I then miscarried at 10 weeks three months later. I then lost our baby girl Lily at 33 weeks, she was born sleeping. I have a beautiful little girl now, Ella who is 15 months old and I am 35 weeks pregnant and due to be induced in 2 weeks time.

Good luck with your fundraising and everything.

Love Sharon

From Sophie
Sent 24 August 2004 04:10:32
Subject Joshua's Boxes

Your website is beautiful, I just wanted to wish you all the best of luck with the charity and want you to know that I think what you are doing is marvellous!

Love Sophie

From Louise
Sent 25 August 2004 11:31:30
Subject Joshua's Boxes

I think your website is lovely, the boxes are a great idea. Anything that parents can take home as a reminder of their baby is a huge help after such a devastating loss. My son, Louis, died in July 2000 aged 2 days. He was born at 25 weeks and his lungs weren't developed enough. I've since had a daughter, Lydia, and am pregnant again. I have a weak cervix so have to have a stitch, and that's why Louis was born so early. It's always nice to have somewhere to remember our babies and write about them.

Thinking of you and Joshua.

Love from Louise. xxxx

From Linz
Sent 25 August 2004 15:32:05
Subject Joshua's Boxes

I think what you are doing is wonderful, I hope you are soon able to offer these boxes to all parents who suffer a loss, as I would have loved one when I lost my son.

From Marilyn
Sent 19 September 2004 14:30:37
Subject Joshua's Boxes

Dear Fiona, Simon & Family

Thinking of you today & will pray at our evening Taize Service, just as I did for Joshua & you a year ago.

Love Marilyn x

From Heather
Sent 29 September 2004 22:04:37
Subject Joshua's Boxes

Good luck with the boxes, I think it is a lovely idea. I have had 2 m/c recently and a loss at 24 weeks 18 yrs ago. I have 2 healthly children 14 and 17 and something like Joshua's boxes would have been a great comfort to myself and my other children.

All the best of luck my heart goes out to you and your family

Heather

From Marilyn
Sent 29 September 2004 17:23:34
Subject Congratulations

Congratulations on achieving Charity status! If not the best birthday present that you could have had, then at least as you say Joshua's short life has achieved so much & he will be remembered.

Our thoughts, love & prayers have been especially with you & your family these last few weeks

God Bless, Marilyn x

From Cyndi Oberle
Sent 03 October 2004 05:19:53
Subject guestbook

Your website is lovely and good luck with your venture. This is a wonderful thing you are doing for parents suffering such a great loss.

From Angela Rigby
Sent 06 October 2004 17:18:05
Subject guestbook

Firstly I was very sorry to hear about your loss. Your site and Joshua's Boxes is truly inspirational. My husband and I lost our first daughter, Caitlin, at 39 weeks in Feb 03 due to unexplained stillbirth. Although we have a hand and footprint and a lock of hair and some photos there are so many other things I wish I had done now - many of which I have noted you include in your boxes. The plaster kits sound really good too as do the cameras - in our case the cameras provided (4 in total) all broke and so we bought them a new state of the art camera to use.

Thank you again for the inspiration

Angela

From Andrea
Sent 27 October 2004 06:46:46
Subject guestbook

Your website is very touching and the memory boxes are a wonderful idea. This site will provide a huge deal of comfort to many people who have suffered such terrible losses. You are to be admired for your wonderful work.

Love & Best Wishes Andrea xx

From JoAnne
Sent 17 November 2004 10:45:38
Subject guestbook

We have just lost two babies through early miscarriage on Poppy Day and too have a small box with a favour from our wedding day and two poppies in side which we will be able to keep forever as rememberance of our two angels who went straight to heaven. Joshuas boxes will provide rememberance for those babies their families will never forget.

Good luck JoAnne Curtis xxx

From  Pat Stothard
Sent  18 November 2004 09:58:34
Subject guestbook

As a family we know what it is like to lose a baby before birth, no one knows until it happens to you.

Pat

From Frenchie
Sent  23 November 2004 15:54:26
Subject guestbook

Your website is an inspiration. All babies no matter how big or small count.

Thank you

Frenchie

From Marilyn
Sent 14 December 2004 19:58:46
Subject guestbook

Congratulations to Joshua's Boxes .Message heard loud & clear on radio. You all presented so well, hope other people take up the challenge. Joshua will be proud of you.

Love Marilyn xxx

From lynne king
Sent 19 December 2004 21:28:13
Subject guestbook
My son michael was stillborn at 34 weeks on the 12th july 1992. I wish we had help like this, such a comforting thing . keep up the good work.
From Pat
Sent 18 December 2004 22:32:29
Subject guestbook
Absolutely brilliant idea. I wish you'd been around when I lost my daughter at birth 32 years ago.

Pat
From Connie
Sent 04 January 2005 02:54:32
Subject guestbook
I think what you are doing is really wonderful. I lost my firstborn son at 35 weeks. The hospital made me a keepsake box and took a few pictures with a polaroid camera. Two out of the three pictures are hard to make out, so all I really have is one. I guess it's better than nothing.

I always wish I had a camera with me so I could have taken more. It's great that you are doing this for people so they can hold on to the memory of their child.
From Andrew
Sent 11 January 2005 23:05:30
Subject guestbook
What a fantastic idea, we lost our daughter in 1998 and would have loved one of those boxes (looking back). Our little girl was stillborn at the liverpool womens.

http://groups.msn.com/StillbirthSupport-/homepage.msnw
From BECKY
Sent 30 January 2005 21:32:42
Subject guestbook
Dear Fiona,

I think your website is beautiful and inspirational as it may help bereaved parents come to terms with their loss. I suffered a loss 7th January 2005. My pregnancy was going very well. I was about 18 wks, I started getting contractions and an awful lot of yellow discharge. Hospital said it was normal. Two days before Christmas I went to my 20wk antenatal. Told the midwife she said they are braxton hickes she never even logged it in my green notes. I felt I should have been given a scan or an examination. Went home contractions and discharge getting worse. I admitted myself to hospital.

It was found my membranes were protruding and my cervix was dilating. I was kept in and was going to be stitched. As I had eaten it was delayed. Half hour I was due to go down to theatre my waters broke. Friday morning I was in labour and told there was nothing that could be done to save my baby and baby would be transparent and dead on arrival. After 20hrs of labour I gave birth to a daughter. I named her Charley Rebecca. She weighed 1lb 7oz and measured 26cm. She lived for 1hr 20min and she wasn't transparent, she was perfect - she had eyebrows and her finger and toenails. I knew all the way through I was further gone. No way is a 22wk baby is that formed and lives for that long. Sadly the hospital had messed up and they won't admit it. If it weren't for them Charley would still be tucked up nice and warm in Mommys tummy.

Thankyou Fiona for your beautiful box. If it was not for you I wouldn't have memories of my daughter as my partners family asked for the baby stuff back they bought exactly a wk since I lost Charley. Good luck with your fundraising.

Thank you once again

X
From Julie Bayliss
Sent 22 February 2005 09:12:11
Subject guestbook
A beautiful website for a beautiful idea. I lost my son, Jonny at 20 wks on April 2004 and I wish these boxes had been around then, just to have had a blanket...

Best wishes for the future,
Julie
From Jayne Woodroffe
Sent 23 February 2005 11:12:22
Subject guestbook
I work as a midwife at Birmingham Womens Hospital and would just like to say what a wonderful idea Joshua's boxes are
xx
From Joanne Vale
Sent 24 February 2005 12:14:07
Subject guestbook
Just had a quick look at your site and I think it is fantastic. I lost my beautiful little girl when she was only 14 hours old, I didn't receive any help or support from anybody and would have loved a little box like this to record all her details. I have since made a memory box but it is not the same as having the opportunity at the time.

I would love to know if I could be of any help, I can knit and I am quite creative, please let me know if there is anything I can do.

Joanne
From Julie Naas
Sent 27 February 2005 15:05:49
Subject guestbook
What a wonderful idea! I had a stillbirth at 28 wks in April 1995, and know Joshua's boxes would of helped us with our grief.

Wishing you all the very best to you and your beauitful family.

Julie
From Karen
Sent 27 February 2005 22:01:26
Subject guestbook
1st read story in magazine and looked up website. Great idea!..I have had 3 miscarriages and lost a little boy at 5 months (pregnant) and I wish something like this was available to me then.

I'm sorry for you're loss too, what you've achieved in his memory is priceless..

Karen xx
From Jenny
Sent 28 February 2005 06:14:39
Subject guestbook
Dear Fiona,

As a nurse working in gynaecology who frequently shares the sadness and grief of families losing precious babies through miscarriage, ectopic and fetal abnormality, I want you to know just how brave you have been to take your pain and loss to help others at their darkest and loneliest hours.

Your tribute to your little boy is both beautiful and heartbreaking. Please continue your hard work and be reassured that your charity will be highlighted to my department, as I feel that many families would benefit from this method of rememberance and memory.

I wish you and your family well, and hope that families can continue to feel some peace from your work, so that your little one did not have pass away in vain.

Jenny Staff Nurse (Cambridgeshire)
From Kelly Dimmock
Sent 28 February 2005 22:54:01
Subject guestbook
Fiona,

Joshua's boxes is a wonderful idea and I wish that there could be something like that here in Germany for us ladies who are married to the armed forces. On the 17th Jan 2005 my husband and I had a beautiful baby boy named Ryley-alex who was born at 26 weeks weighing 1lb 3oz. I had pre-eclampsia and my placenta was thrombotic. Every scan I had I was told that everything was fine despite the constant bleeding throughout my pregnancy.

Ryley-alex was as small as a 22 wk baby and was given 24-48 hrs to live. He lived for 9 precious days but died from his lungs not being developed and severe bleeding to his brain. Having one of these boxes would have given us some more memories to have taken home with us.

Myself and my Husband David wish you all the best with Joshua's boxes.

Love Kelly xxx
From Great Aunt Terri
Sent 15 March 2005 21:35:58
Subject guestbook
What a wonderful idea! I had many problems getting pregnant and had a beautiful baby girl eighteen years ago, but last year my neice lost her baby at eight months. He was a beautiful baby named Lukas. I found this site from his memory site.

I really think this is a great idea.
From JULIE SANDERSON
Sent 05 April 2005 11:56:29
Subject guestbook
I work as a bereavement midwife in the Merseyside area and was touched by your story and your kindness and dedication in improving facilities for unfortunate familes that follow in your footsteps.
From  Sonja Cook
Sent  06 April 2005 09:32:21
Subject guestbook
 What a wonderful thing to do for so many! - I really admire your strength. Thomas' Mummy has made such a beautiful website for you, you have both been through so much, it is really touching to see something so positive to help others being given from you after such tragic losses. Well done, your Angels will be so very proud of you both.
From Sophie
Sent 26 April 2005 09:30:25
Subject guestbook
Sorry to hear about Joshua.
From Rebecca
Sent 21 April 2005 20:58:47
Subject guestbook
I recently lost my first baby, Rosie Grace, at 27 weeks. What made it harder was that I had no idea I was even pregnant so to find out I was in labour, have a baby and to lose her in the space of an hour was quite a shock. I had read about your site a long time ago, and though Joshua's boxes are not available from my local hospital, you inspired me to get a box of my own to keep the pictures and other keepsakes the hospital gave me. Precious memories are all that parents like myself have and you provide many people a special place to keep them. Keep up the good work.

Thinking of you, Joshua and all the other parents and babies,
Rebecca xx
From Tilly love
Sent 20 April 2005 19:48:53
Subject guestbook
I think your family is very strong and I think you are very kind to be doing all of this.
From Jemma
Sent 13 April 2005 14:00:38
Subject guestbook
Fantastic site!
From Pam Whiteley
Sent 04 May 2005 20:04:32
Subject guestbook
What a lovely website - it made me cry. It's lovely to see you helping others at such a difficult time. I will think of you tonight....

Pam x
From Natasha Jones
Sent 03 May 2005 09:21:54
Subject guestbook
I think that the web site is brilliant. You are a wonderful person for doing these boxes.
From Sophie-Maria Garty
Sent 29 April 2005 16:05:18
Subject guestbook
Hiya, I think what you are doing is great so keep up the great work!!! :)

Love Sophie
From Hayley
Sent 09 May 2005 12:31:57
Subject guestbook
Will love and hope for the future...xxxxxxxxxx

2 angels nov 04 @11 weeks and feb 05 @7 weeks
From  Ben
Sent  11 May 2005 17:28:02
Subject guestbook
 Hello, I'm Ben from Denbigh High School. rememeber, in that Maths class?, ace site!
From SheriLynn White 
Sent 12 May 2005 02:15:24
Subject guestbook
I love this site. I had a beautiful baby girl in 2000, born at 24 wks. She passed away in my arms minutes later. I wish that I had something like that for her. In 2003, I had another beautiful baby girl, this time at 26 wks. She is now almost 2yrs. old and is doing wonderful.

Thank you for providing families with such a loving gift.
From Karen Barker
Sent 12 May 2005 19:37:39
Subject guestbook
Dear Fiona,

I would just like to say the biggest thankyou to you. Joshua's Box has been a great comfort to me. It is so hard when you lose a baby, I miscarried at 10 weeks and I had nothing, no scan picture, but now I have something, thank you. I also would like to say that the charity bands are lovely. I only received mine yesterday and I love it.

Wishing you all the very best. Love Karen xxxxxx
From Sharon
Sent 13 May 2005 22:59:58
Subject guestbook
I just wanted to write and let you know that I think you are doing a wonderful job. I miscarried in January this year, and I know how much of a difference something like this would have made. I will be putting a cheque in the post first thing tomorrow, for 2 wristbands for me and my husband. Just reading through your site has given me comfort and hope. You are a remarkable lady.

Lots of love to you and your family xxx
From Laura Thoel
Sent 14 May 2005 12:39:51
Subject guestbook
I just wanted to thank you for the service you are offering. I had twins born at 26 weeks and they were fighting for 3 days but could fight no longer. I think its a wonderful idea and I wish you all the luck in the world. After all, for parents like us memories are all we have.
From Victoria Preston
Sent 14 May 2005 16:08:25
Subject guestbook
 What a lovely idea, well done to you all.
From Leanne Bailey
Sent 16 May 2005 11:27:46
Subject guestbook
What a wonderful job you are doing for such a heartbreaking cause. I wish I had been given one of your boxes when I lost my twins. Keep up the good work.

Love Leanne Mommy to angels Dylan and Mark xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
From Stephanie Bate
Sent 17 May 2005 07:03:21
Subject guestbook
I think you are an amazing person to set up such a charity, so many peoples lives will be made better by what you are doing.

Well done and good luck with everything.
From Mel Halstead
Sent 17 May 2005 11:59:28
Subject guestbook
This website, and your story is lovely, to be so strong through a time like that is amazing. I found out about this site through a magazine article, which I found very emotional. it's nice to know someone will help you through a tragic time.
From Paula louise Seamarks
Sent 18 May 2005 12:10:20
Subject guestbook
I found out about Joshua's boxes from my very dear friend Jane Barlow in mold. Sadly I miscarried our baby at almsot 12 weeks at Glan Clwyd on the 28th April. My husband Danny and I, are and have been very sad. As like many persepective parents, this was a long awaited child who we both longed for. Furthermore we had been referred for IVF and consequently because of the preganacy, we did not need to have this treatment.

I know that Jane has e-mailed you on my behalf to request a box in which my scan photo and other treasured momentos will be kept and remembered. I think these boxes are a wonderful Idea, as I, like many feel lost and empty especially leaving the hospital with nothing to show. We are both positive people and hope that I shall become preganant again and remain hopeful that it shall be soon. I shall most definately be spreading the word about the wonderful and worthwhile work you do.

Regards Paula Seamarks.
I shall most definately infom many people about this website!
From angela
Sent 18 May 2005 17:29:38
Subject guestbook
A wonderful site and a truly amazing idea with the boxes and wristbands. I have ordered one for myself.
From Diane
Sent 19 May 2005 08:58:19
Subject guestbook
Hi, What a Lovely idea, Joshua will be remembered always.
From Sheila Lister
Sent 19 May 2005 14:44:19
Subject guestbook
Hi, we wanted to let you know that we visited your site today and will be buying bands next week to support your charity!

Love Mrs Lister and 8Ba1
From Sues
Sent 20 May 2005 12:02:22
Subject guestbook
I just wanted to wish you luck with your Joshua Boxes. It is a lovely and very touching idea and one which I am sure will help bring comfort.

Sues
From faye-michelle king
Sent 20 May 2005 13:48:48
Subject guestbook
I would just like to say keep up the good work, I lost a baby at 20 weeks and found it very hard. I now have twin boys called Samuel and Joshua. The site really touched my heart and I wished that there was something like this when I lost my precious baby...........

Faye x
From shirin
Sent 21 May 2005 04:41:58
Subject guestbook
I think what you are doing is fantastic. I am very sorry in hearing about your loss, but it's good to hear your putting your terrible ordeal to use by helping others in a similar position. I'm a student midwife and definitely think you should be commended for what you are doing.
From Helen Simpson
Sent 21 May 2005 12:31:01
Subject guestbook
I'm so sorry to hear of all the trauma you have been through, my darling angel was stillborn at 41 weeks pregnant in october 2004. Thank you for a lovely web page for memories and help.

Good luck with Joshuas boxes, Like others have said, I think you will have touched so many hearts,

WITH LOVE Helen Angel Bethanys mummy. x-x-x
From Clare Powell
Sent 21 May 2005 20:53:42
Subject guestbook
I have just been reading your web site and I can't say how much I am touched by this, it's a great idea for all other families. Although I have never lost a child my sister has and how hard it was to cope with, on my part I can't imagine how hard it would be to lose one of my own, as we were both pregnant together and the babies were roughly 6 weeks apart. We didn't see eachother for ages.

So i'd just like to say well done in everything that your charity is doing and hope you can continue to keep such a worthwhile charity going. My sister has had a lot of support from sands and with this we are doing a sponsored walk in June, so good luck to us and to you.

WELL DONE AGAIN.
From Sarah
Sent 24 May 2005 13:16:30
Subject guestbook
My baby boy, Jed died on 2nd December 2004 due to placental abruption and I would like to thank you for Joshua's Boxes as it gives me memories of my darling son.

Good luck for the future and thank you again for the memory box.

Love from Sarah
From Marianna Wimberly
Sent 31 May 2005 22:33:56
Subject guestbook
I am a Child Life Therapist at All Children's Hospital in St. Petersburg, FL. Thanks for providing this service.
From Julie
Sent 03 June 2005 07:39:34
Subject guestbook
What a wonderful site.

From Julie
Edinburgh, Scotland.
Mummy to Craig 17/03/2002. sadly missed
From Marie
Sent 04 June 2005 18